Man Creates WhatsApp Group Chat for Partner and Side Chick to “Resolve Issues”

A man has sparked debate online after telling his partner to apologise to his side chick following a dispute over their relationship.

In a text message shared online, the man acknowledged that his partner was hurt by what happened between him and Vanessa and said he had already apologised for his actions.

However, he took issue with the message his partner had sent to Vanessa, saying it was disrespectful and that she owed the woman an apology.

“I know you’re hurt, and I’ve apologized for what happened between me and Vanessa. But the message you sent her was disrespectful, and you owe her an apology,” the man said.

His partner appeared shocked by the request and questioned whether he was asking her to apologise to his alleged side chick.

“Are you asking me to apologize to your side chick?” she asked.

Man Says Anger Should Be Directed at Him Not Side Chick

The man maintained that Vanessa was not the person who had made vows to his partner.

“She didn’t make any vows to you, I did. Your anger should be directed at me, not her,” he said.

He also said he had created a group chat involving the three of them so they could discuss the matter and find a solution.

“I added you both to a group chat so we can resolve this maturely and keep everyone happy,” he added.

The exchange attracted different reactions, with some social media users supporting the man’s position while others joked about the situation.

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Kenyans React to the Relationship Dispute

Marwa supported the man’s argument, saying the responsibility should primarily fall on him because he was the one who made vows to his partner.

“The Man is right … The person to be blamed is him not a stranger on this matter.. maybe Vanessa does not even know the main chick…! The man is principled, Apologize! then let us solve our issues as we vowed to… #makofikwake,”he commented.

Win also argued that the man’s partner should be angry with him rather than Vanessa.

“But its the truth, you should be angry at your spouse not the other woman. Maybe she was lied to and manipulated. Karma will deal with her one day,” Win said.

Collins said,“We all know polygamist men when we see one🤣.”

Mlanguzzi praised the man’s approach to handling the dispute, describing it as an example of calm leadership.

“Hii ndio Leadership & Sobriety in times of a crisis,” he said.

Gabriel praised the man’s approach, comparing it to Tommy’s handling of a similar situation.

“This guy matched Tommy’s level of leadership 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿. Staying objective when solving emotional problems,” Gabriel commented.

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Others See Pressure Behind the Situation

Kevin joked about the pressure that can come with having a side relationship.

“Lakini a side chick can have you on a chock hold 🤣. You can never understand the pressure this man was/is under,” Kevin said.

Mwamburi also joked about the reaction the situation could attract from feminists.

“Tuna ngojea feminists hapa shortly with missile attacks on the boy child…” he commented.

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